You’ve read the books.
You’ve done the work.
You know the systems and — capitalism, patriarchy, whiteness, purity culture, all of it — and the places those systems have damaged inside you.
You’ve had the language for a while now.
But you still catch yourself asking:
Why does my wanting still feel so far away?
Why do I know what I’m against, but still not know what I actually want?
Why do I feel like I need permission to feel good?
Why do I keep choosing from fear, guilt, or performance — instead of desire?
That’s where this begins.
UNF*CK is not a class. It’s a reckoning.
It’s not about becoming more informed. It’s about becoming more alive.
This is a queer*, embodied, truth-soaked space to rewild your wanting —
To stop performing your healing and start practicing your freedom.
To remember how to say, choose, ask, take, receive, and feel —
Not because it’s allowed.
But because it’s yours.
This is for you if:
- You’re tired of being “good,” healed, likable, legible, or appropriate
- You’ve spent years unlearning systems — and are now asking, what do I build in their place?
- You want to live from pleasure, clarity, and power — not apology
- You know there’s more in you. Want. Voice. Aliveness. Wildness. But you’ve kept it quiet.
- You’re craving a space where desire is holy, disruptive, and completely unedited
What We’ll Actually Do:
This is a 10-week liberation lab for the parts of you that may not have spoken up in a while – perhaps not ever.
Each week, we’ll work with one “dangerous” question.
We’ll name things we’ve never said out loud.
We’ll practice asking for what we want.
We’ll experiment with telling the truth without cushioning it.
We’ll witness each other in our bigness, our hunger, our contradiction.
You’ll leave with:
- A deeper relationship to your actual desires
- Practices for asking, choosing, and voicing without shrinking
- A clearer “no,” a louder “yes,” and fewer apologies between
- A personal Rewilding Doctrine — written by you, for the life you’re becoming
What It Looks Like:
- 10 live, provocative gatherings (on Zoom, but not your average Zoom)
- Weekly desire challenges (small, bold, and designed to make you feel more alive)
- Optional writing prompts, erotic provocations, and reflection rituals
*You don’t need to be queer to be here —
But this space is queer.
In its logic.
In its defiance.
In its love of contradiction, fluidity, and becoming.
This is not about healing the past.
It’s about becoming impossibly honest in the present.
Come because you’re curious. Stay because it wakes something up in you.
This won’t be safe. It will be sacred.
Let’s remember what it feels like to want — wildly, unapologetically, and together.
Our Syllabus: A 10-week descent into your untamed wanting.
I know the UNschool tuition, time investment, and/or timing can be inaccessible for some folks. So: here’s our syllabus, both so you can see what we’ll be digging into if you participate, but also so you can create your own free course for yourself if you are unable attend with us.
We’ll connect all of these sessions to systems and to liberatory practices:
- What do you want that would ruin everything?
- Who were you before you were obedient?
- What desire did the system shame out of you?
- What if your pleasure was never meant to be productive?
- What do you want with others — not from them?
- What if there’s nothing wrong with you?
- Where is your hunger still hiding?
- What happens when you don’t shrink?
- What truths are you still cushioning?
- What would a life led by desire look like?
The Deets

The current UNschool semester begins May 28th and concludes August 20th. UNf*ck will have sessions most Wednesdays from 12:30-1:30pm EST.
Applications for the current term close Sunday May 11th at 11:59pm. Seats for this semester are limited.
Your UNschooling tuition (which includes private one to one coaching) is $297 per month. A semester is three months ($891 total).
This semester only, if you’d like to participate in BOTH UNschool courses (check out UNfit here), you can take advantage of a significant tuition discount: $1399 ($699 per course vs. $891; nearly $400 off your tuition).
You can experience the UNschool RISK FREE. Come to your first class. Experience your first coaching session. If for any reason you decide it’s not the UNschool for you, you can email us and we’ll refund you immediately. No justification needed. No questions asked.
To learn more about UNschool, generally, and to read through FAQs, click here.
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